If a gay guy notices you and pays you a compliment or playfully hits on you, take it for what it is, dude:
A recognition that you are looking particularly good and that your efforts to present yourself to the world in a good light are paying off.
We don’t want to sex you up. We recognize talent.
… and if a member of my tribe pays you a compliment … the ladies have noticed you … and … are making plans.
@paulawirth Unless it’s my first husband. He may be gay, but his fashion sense is totally straight. @GayDeceiver